Friday, September 4, 2009

Relationships

I'll probably be writing a lot about relationships - I sincerely believe that it's the single most important underlying element in life... and if we really want to progress (to move forward!!!) we need to give consideration to the ways in which we can best facilitate the nurturing of relationships in every realm of life... and that doesn't necessarily mean that we must set out to please everyone... when relationships are strong we are better poised to be objective and honest without fear of fall-out. So how do we nurture positive relationships? Here are my recommendations:
  1. Show respect (never be disrespectful) - even if (especially if) you have a different point of view. I see this on a continuum from respecting to appreciating to valuing. As we mature and our relationships mature, we move from respecting (other points of view) - then to appreciating (other points of view) - then to valuing (other points of view).
  2. Stick to your principles (but be humble about it). Don't compromise your principles as a strategy for strengthening a relationship.
  3. Remain focused on your purpose in life - a purpose driven life facilitates the enhancement of meaningful relationships. It may be difficult to establish meaningful relationships if your life has no purpose.
+ve vibes,
Mark

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